Welcome to the online home of a puppy called Dash.

About me

I identify as male, gay, and I believe in God. I am also the author of the forthcoming manuscript, Faith and Fetish, the story of how I learned to embrace kink with grace (more about that below).

As a Christian, I have struggled with my sexual orientation and my kink-proclivities. After years of soul-searching, I struck gold: God made me the way I am for a reason! After discovering this, my life received a new purpose: sharing my story.

Are you searching for an honest and profound exploration of the complex intersection between kink and Christian faith? Then you are invited to join me on this journey.

A two-legged plot twist

My manuscript currently carries the working title “Faith and Fetish: How I learned to embrace kink with grace” or “The story of a kinkster who was saved by grace”.

In it, I present a kink-positive view through a Christian lens. I delve into various forms of non-vanilla intimacy—such as BDSM, fetish, bondage, and puppy play—and explain how I reconcile these aspects with central theological themes like sin and grace, unconditional love, and the joy of submission.

The insights shared are drawn from my own experiences and understanding, enriched by interviews with other kinksters. Ultimately, this work seeks to show that the joy of submission is a shared experience between people of faith and kinksters, emphasizing that love is the driving force behind both kink and my relationship with the divine.